26
Mar
Author: JamTown // Category:
Campus Life
Response of the Day comes from Whitney Johnson @ “Vlog Day! – More Roommate Stories.” You can find the vlog and the original roommate post under the “Dorm Living” category.
I am most definitely a college survivor?
My first semester in school I roomed with girl who had tendencies that were completely opposite than I. I mean, she went sleep early, I went late. I liked cold, she liked to be warm. She was MESSY and I always kept my side neat. But I could live with that. What I couldn?t live with was her cheese fetish. She loved cheese. Which by itself seems fine. But she liked the smelly cheese. And living in a small room that gets warm during the day?it wasn?t a good look at all. So I would walk in and be smacked in the face with the scent of smelly cheese. And on top of that we shared a refrigerator that I bought, so half the time it was filled with her huge rolls of cheese. Eventually I moved out and moved in with a girl I met in one of my classes, but I am in a similar predicament now (2 years later).
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In Wooden Nickels: CG is in a long-distance relationship his senior year.
- College Survivors: Were you in any long-distance relationships in college?? How did you make the relationship work?
- College Dreamers: Will you be in any long-distance relationships in college?? How far away will the person be?
JamTown’s Response:
I was never in any long-distance relationships in college, but I had some friends who were.? First of all, starting college in a committed relationship…with someone who is not on the same campus or in the same city or state is a big feat.? A lot of people, in my experience, went to college to explore all their romantic options with the large pool of students on campus.? And those people were single.
But on the other hand, I could still find relationships spilling over from high school or relationships formed over spring break/study abroad adventures.? This kind of commitment came with a certain list of obligations for my friends including: road trips, airplane tickets, thousands of cell phone minutes, and many post office visits.
It was hard for some of them to keep up with this list.? A significant other would get upset or suspicious if the object of his/her affection was unreachable or had to cancel a regular visit.? Others found that they were maturing and outgrowing their relationships.? College is a place where a student can come in one way, and graduate as a completely different person.? Plus, it’s just easier to date someone you can see everyday.
There were a select few, however, who withstood the test of time.? I know you’ve heard about people marrying their high school sweethearts or having cross-country relationships that last.? Well, it’s possible.? The question is…is it (was it) possible for you?
So what’s your story?
JamTown